Tantra Massage vs Tantra Healing Massage

What is the difference between a “Tantra Massage” and a “Tantra Healing Massage”?

Often when I share with people about the Tantra Healing Massage work that I do, I am met with confusion.  Sadly, the word “Tantra” has been greatly exploited by those who simply provide an erotic massage.  While I am certainly capable of providing an erotic massage, this is not what I offer.  If you search on Google for “Tantra Massage,” you will most likely find countless offerings for an erotic massage, with most offering a “happy ending” or other pleasure centered offerings.  This is usually offered by women to men (but of course men offer this as well), and has sadly been used as a way for sex workers to attempt to raise the value of their offering by the use of this mysterious word “Tantra.”  99% of these practitioners offer nothing more than a massage with a sexual intent, and have had no training whatsoever in real tantra.  Many offer a sensual or sexual massage in Indian clothing (or nude) and use feathers and light touches to stimulate arousal; to me this represents a complete lack of understanding of Tantra.   In my opinion, this type of Tantra is an invention of sex workers to legitimize their work or alleviate their guilt of providing sexual services under the disguise of calling it Tantra.  If that is what you are looking for, then you can certainly find it.  However, while you might find that type of service enjoyable, there is virtually no deep healing available through this type of massage.  So then, what is a Tantra Healing Massage?  A Tantra Healing Massage begins with a different intention, and therefore a different result.  A healing massage is one through which you can access deep emotions, clear blocked energy, and address your deep inner self through healing touch and energy.  A key factor is involving the breathe, and therefore I teach breathe work and meditation as part of my offering.  Having an orgasm is not the goal of a healing massage, although it is certainly possible.  There is no specific goal for pleasure, only an intention for deep healing.  There IS a link between sexual energy and healing, and therefore arousal is essentially part of the massage.  However, the intent is for full body arousal, not genital arousal.  The most powerful force in the universe is sexual energy, the same energy that is used to create life.  The same energy can be used to heal.  Therefore, raising sexual energy allows for raising healing energy, it is one in the same.  It has been said by Tantra masters that “Sexual energy is the direct path to spiritual enlightenment.”  I completely agree, as would my clients.  In a state of full body arousal, sexual energy can move through blocks and stuck emotions, allowing for deep emotional healing and emotional release.  To be enlightened is simply to be the purest version of your self, to know your self and to love your self.  In a Tantra Healing Massage, all of your emotions are welcome.  If you can feel it, you can move it.  And if you can move it, you can heal it.  Our intention for our healing session will be for you to allow yourself to experience all of your emotions in a safe place, so you can release that which no longer serves you.  So to summarize, the difference between a sensual “tantra massage” and “tantra healing massage” starts with the intention; a tantra massage is simply a pleasure-based massage, whereas a tantra healing massage is sacred work which works with divine energy to serve you in your transformation and deep healing.  If you have questions, I encourage you to reach out and have a conversation about the work that I do, or read more about it here:

Release your inner Goddess with Tantra Healing Massage

Release your inner Goddess with Tantra Healing Massage

Tantra Healing Massage is a profound gateway to your personal evolution and healing. Think of the best massage you have ever had. Now imagine you could amplify the pleasure of that massage by 10 times, and while doing so release all of your fear, guilt, shame and emotional pain. Now imagine yourself having just experienced this profound release and now have newfound freedom and power . . .  and that is what I offer. My clients consist of single men, single women and couples, but my passion is to work with women who want to experience their full goddess power.  What would you do in your life if you had no more fear?  What would your relationships look like if you could love without fear or guilt or shame?  How would your sex life change if you had unlimited sexual power?  How would the men in your life treat you differently if you felt more powerful?  How could you transform the people and environment around you with your unleashed goddess power?  I want that for you.  I want you to experience your full power and live your life with unbridled passion.  And, I am passionate about helping you create that opportunity for yourself.  I am confident that I can help you, no matter who you are, no matter what you have been through and no matter what your situation is.

So what exactly is a Tantra Healing Massage?

My tantra healing massage involves the combing of several methods and techniques which together cause energy to move in your body and facilitates the release of stored trauma. I work with energy. I build it. I move it. I circulate it through your body in waves of healing pleasure.  I work on unblocking the areas where your energy is blocked.  And through that there is deep healing, and a feeling of being light yet being powerful.  I combine the grounding elements of physical body massage techniques including acupressure and deep tissue massage with techniques for moving chi energy along your body meridians in order to build and circulate your body energy. I rely heavily on my knowledge of healing pressure points and trigger release points on the body which can activate the flow of your powerful energy and the release of stored negative energy that no longer serves you to hold onto.  These points and meridians cover all parts of the body, with major meridians starting from the feet and through both sides of the legs, then dominantly on the centerline of the upper body.

These points are especially important surrounding the pelvic area, where both women and men store trauma in their body.   Identity trauma that shows up as "I'm not good enough" or "I'm not lovable" or "I'm not worthy" typically manifests as blockages and stored trauma, particularly in the pelvic region.  If you experience these types of feelings and also a lack of sexual power (not to be confused with libido), then I am likely the right person to help.  My intention is of the highest consciousness of your healing, in complete service to you as my client and your healing. Therefore, it is not a sexual experience for me or for my client, but for my client it is extremely blissful and pleasurable.

More about trauma . . .

Everyone has stored trauma in our bodies, and without some external force or healing it somehow, it usually embeds itself permanently. People have the illusion that it "fades away" or you just "get over it." But nothing could be further than the truth. You might have that experience in your mind, but it is likely still embedded in the physical body and can still cause energy blockages.  When you think of the word "trauma", you likely have an idea that i'm talking about sexual abuse or severely traumatic events, or injuries caused by physical abuse or even auto accidents.  And while it certainly does include those things, the realm of trauma is much more broad when it comes to what affects your body and limits your energy and power.  Maybe someone told you you were not good enough, and you absorbed that feeling into your body . . . That's trauma.  Maybe you had broken relationships that were never healed . . . that's trauma.  Maybe you lost a love one, or a love one left you . . . that's trauma.  Maybe you were even teased by your classmates or teacher as a child . . .Yes, even THAT can cause stored trauma in the body.  Maybe you just don't feel well or have a bit of depression . . . Yes, that can be and is likely caused by hidden trauma, where you are consciously unaware of the origin.  Make no mistake, your natural state of being is a powerful goddess.  When you heal your physical body, your emotional body, and your mind, your inner power will surface like a volcano with power you never knew you had.  I offer a doorway into that newfound power, one that I call the Golden Door.  And when you walk through that door, the new you on the other side is the brighter and lighter and more powerful version of the goddess that you are.

So how does the Tantra Healing Massage happen and what do I do?

My massage begins with creating a sacred space, a peaceful space filled with respect and the utmost safety for your well-being. From the moment your session begins, your feeling of safety and security becomes my number one priority. From that space, the healing can begin.   In fact, for many women this is the most powerful experience just to have a safe space where your boundaries are respected and you are honored as the goddess that you are.  Before the physical massage, I begin by discussing your intentions and boundaries for our session and addressing any concerns you may have, and offer therapy and coaching surrounding any topic that would facilitate your healing during the session.  Then I begin my massage by relaxing your physical body initially through physical massage techniques.  From there, I begin to build energy, circulate it, and bring up your first and second chakra energy.  Your own sexual energy becomes your healer, and I simply facilitate moving it in the right direction.  You may have heard of Kundalini or Kundalini Yoga, and in a similar manner I am awakening your kundalini, your core energy held in the root of your spine.   The most powerful part of the massage is the yoni massage, where points around and in the pelvic area are held and massaged, causing release of trauma and pain.  We complete the massage with your complete relaxation and rest while listening to relaxing music designed to stimulate and heal your body and mind.

What can I expect if I release trauma?

Every woman is uniquely different, and every session is uniquely different.   I encourage my clients to have intentions, but not expectations, because expectations can cause you to feel the pressure of having your session occur in a certain way.  You must give up this expectation, as my experience tells me that women are normally surprised what happens during their session.  So do not have expectations, rather, you should have intentions . . . intentions of being willing to be vulnerable, intentions of being willing to release what no longer serves you, and intentions of being willing to trust and surrender to the process fully.    I invite you to have intentions for yourself, but not expectations.  Most importantly, understand that the intention is to release trauma, and it may surprise you what that looks like when it is released.  It is normal for my client to sometimes cry, be angry, be sad, or have memories of people and events that they had long forgotten.  All of it is ok and welcome, and know that there is nothing that could happen which I would be unprepared for dealing with.  You will be safe in our sacred space, and free to express your emotions in any way that serves you.  My job is to hold the space for your healing release, no matter what it looks like or doesn't look like.  And when we complete our session, a lighter more powerful version of you will emerge!  That is my promise.